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My third trip to Tunisia

I wrote about my first trip to Tunisia in this blog, but not about the second. I didn’t give it much importance since I was only there for a week. But on this third trip, which I came for a month and stayed for almost three months, I feel like writing about it for my own memories. It started with the idea of ​​going by car. I have just bought a car in Switzerland and the truth is that in Tunisia without a car you can’t do much and we prefer, my partner who is Tunisian and I, to...

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Training as an Online Sex Coach

My certification is online. I don’t need to go to a university to pass exams, when you have everything on the internet, plus 13 years of experience in sex. Now to apply it to the real world and help the world bring out their sexuality and make them enjoy the best orgasms that nature can give us. Cris Blas Sex Coach   #SexCoach – #HealthyRelationships – #SexEducation – #SexualSelfknowledge ### Specific Hashtags – #FemininePleasure – #MasculinePleasure – #IntimacyEnPareja – #IntimateCommunication – #SexualHealth – #SexualWellbeing – #Erectile dysfunction – #LowSexualDesire – #SexualAnxiety – #FearAlRejection – #SexualityTechniques – #SexTips – #IntimatePractices – #LGBTQ – #SexualDiversity – #Gender identity – #SexualEmpowerment – #SexConfidence – #Personal...

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“It’s tough being a sex worker in Spain”

Since arriving in Madrid, I have seen how surreal the problem of being a sex worker is. While I was still in Paris, I started hearing from colleagues that the Spanish government wanted to hide prostitution and abolish it. This subject always comes up when there are changes in government. This time, it is because a negative image of the country was given to tourists, by people who do not accept this profession and want it to remain hidden. It already appeared very vulgar: there were many sex workers on the street, advertisements and posters everywhere with nudity and obscene words. Now they hid it again and here is the result today, January 2024. From my point of view and given my presence in sex work, this is what I see. With the word prostitution, we include everything that involves sexual relations, whether consensual or not, as long as there is money involved. However, being a sex worker can take different forms. I speak in feminine terms because we are mainly women in this profession. (It is clear that it is different to be born with testosterone or estrogen). It can be: -The one who works on the street independently. -The one who works on the street for someone. -The one who works in a club which in Spain is called “Puti Club”. -The one who works in a...

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Response to those who ask to have unprotected sex, whether anal or vaginal

I’m not exaggerating but practically every day someone asks me if I do anal and vaginal penetration without a condom. So I’m going to write this, for the next many who ask me, send them this text directly. Let’s see, gentlemen, we already know that through the anus we do not run the risk of getting pregnant, but we do run the risk of contracting other STDs. Sexually transmitted diseases. It is possible to contract HIV, genital herpes, and HPV, which causes cervical cancer, syphilis and other sexually transmitted infections. Transmission occurs orally, vaginally and anal, during unprotected sex, which is why the use of condoms is insisted upon in every sexual relationship. I am taking a risk by doing fellatio without a condom. But with vaginal and anal penetration I don’t run that risk. Vaginal because women quickly suffer from chlamydia and to give pleasure to a person, I do not run that risk, which also often means spending a week or two without work due to itching and stinging. For those who don’t know, we both have chlamydia, men and women, but men don’t have symptoms, so they don’t know if they have it and they are very easy to spread. Anal, not only because of the great risk of contracting an STD but also because of hygiene. You never know if it will be clean inside...

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The transition

I am in the transition from Escort to S.e.x Coach. An escort is a person who has sex with the client and only has to think about enjoying themself practically keeping quiet and letting herself be done by the client. A sex coach is more of a sex teacher, a sex psychologist, a sex therapist. I am in the transition. I am still an Escort and at the same time I am beginning to be a practical Sex Coach and therapist. Clients are starting to come to me because they want to learn about sex and others to talk...

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Answer to those who are outraged by seeing naked people in public places.

They criticise nudists; They call us exhibitionists, uncivilised and blame us for giving a shameful image to the younger generation. What they don’t realise, is they, because they haven’t really thought deeply, that it’s the opposite, showing parts of the body is natural. The unnatural thing is to bathe in the sea in a swimsuit. I don’t know in which cultures and societies we began to be ashamed of going naked. I imagine that when the man/boy, penis gets hard when excited. They wanted to hide that excitement and that impulse and control unwanted pregnancies. So they decided to...

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It is said that without a university degree, you are not worthy! 

  As a friend told me the day I was rejected from the Paris School of Sexology: “You are already a sexologist” Three years ago I submitted my application to study Sexology, but it was rejected. So I decided to look for other options. I leave this link where I wrote about it. My enrolment in sexology was rejected because I am a prostitute.   After being rejected and wanting to continue studying, I looked for other options and what was closest was a life coach course along with a sex coach course. Despite its price, it was clear...

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The world is blind and Spain is the blindest.

Between the trip to Madrid last year for the operation of my fibroids and a stay in Madrid for three months, it was made clear to me that with my work and my time and energy other countries pay me more and right now I prefer to think about myself more than about family, friends and husband. Spain continues as always. People live with the bare minimum, they can’t even heat their homes in winter and think that it’s normal because they don’t know about other options or that they exist. The system you have created does not help...

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My stay in Madrid. Family matters. Second part

I’ve been at my parents’ house for a month and a half and there are better moments and worse moments. My parents and I can’t stand each other most of the time. My father doesn’t tolerate or respect my way of thinking and I can’t cope with his intolerance and his only perspective of seeing things. He is very political and a bit racist and I am not political and not at all racist. He sometimes makes comments that are provocative. We can’t take him anywhere, let alone with people who don’t speak his language and have different ideologies....

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My stay in Madrid. First part

When I left Madrid 6 years ago, I left with the purpose of becoming trilingual in Spanish, French and English. My friends laughed and didn’t see me capable, not because I wasn’t capable, but because they saw it as something very difficult and even more so at 42 years of age. A friend asked me after three years of being away, how I was doing with my «trilingualism». I imagine that she thought: «I don’t see it, you must get off your high horse » and to relax myself with my purpose, I answered her: «Well, reaching the level...

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My experience with Ayahuasca.

I have been wanting to try it for years, but with the fact that the system had diagnosed me with bipolar and I take medication, nobody accepted me. Also around me my family and friends worried and held me back, trying to scare me. In the end, I made the decision to try it, I wanted to have the experience, it had caught my attention and I wanted to know what it felt like. I’m going to tell you the story from the beginning. I hope I don’t bore you. Well, it turns out that a friend who didn’t...

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How people underestimate you because of your age and have the incorrect perception of you

Whoever still thinks that sex and orgasms are old, from my humble opinion lives in great ignorance. I don’t know why sexual experience and wisdom are still not valued in sex. You keep fucking with your eyes and not with your five senses. If I have to base myself on the ages and physiques of my clients, to have good sex, then with 90%  of them I would not even reach orgasm. But since I don’t care about physique and age, I can enjoy good sex, with an old or young man, with a fat man or a skinny...

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Do you know what cisgender means?

I find it so incredible that the word cisgender was heard for the first time by me not more than two months ago from a Netflix series about the principles of pleasure https://www.netflix.com/watch/81154485?trackId=14170286 Being cisgender is adopting the sexual preference that has been assigned to you at birth for being born with a penis or vagina. It is the way of knowingly and properly mentioning people who accept and assume by system how they have to dress, comb their hair, what colours to choose and above all what gender they have to fall in love with and marry. We...

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Do men fuck more than women? My wife doesn’t make me hard anymore! I am addicted to sex!

Let’s talk again about sexuality and about the calls I receive from my advertisement as a sex coach. I still get 100% calls from men. It must be that women already know everything and they do not need to learn more. They have no doubts that their sexuality is full or it is that they do not like to have orgasms and pleasure. Or, they are happy to live without it or could be that with the Satisfayer (sex toy), they don’t need another person to have pleasure with. Not men, men are insistent and are always looking for new sensations in sex. They are still curious and since it is normal for them to pay for it, they have more sex than women. But women, what kind of sex do they learn if they don’t practice it either in marriage or outside of marriage? Men pay and have sex, but women, I wonder how much sex they have throughout their lives? Because I am a sex worker, otherwise I would be like most women my age, I would have a life almost without sex. Luckily, I became a sex worker, otherwise, I don’t know if I would know how to give the pleasure that I give and have the pleasure that I have. I wouldn’t have learned it. Because what I have learned so far has taken me...

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Continue the trip to Tunisia

First part.   The first few days were a bit of a disappointment, for both Ahmed and me. We found it very dirty with plastic bottles everywhere and all kinds of garbage. After several days, you start to see the charm of the town and you start to feel comfortable. Of course, garbage is still everywhere. I didn’t get used to that. The lovely family, the two sisters, the mother and the grandmother, all women. Unfortunately, as I have already mentioned, the father had only passed away two months before. Runaway stomach cancer. The pity was that for a...

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My first trip to Tunisia and I think it will not be the last.

My partner is from Tunisia and he left his city 10 years ago and went directly to Paris. He hasn’t had the opportunity to return there at this time. We met a year ago and last year we were talking about this summer, which at that time was in the future. We spoke about taking a trip to his country together and a trip to the mine.  I had never been to Tunisia and I was very curious. And going with a local is a different type of trip than going on your own. We planned for Madrid and...

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What is it about my life?

  I can say it is happy and sad. Happy for many things and sad for only one. Sad because my partner does not stop pushing me to leave everything related to sex and nudism. Please, I need help! Can someone tell him how foolish he is that he can even ask me that! I have been in the sex worker profession for 10 years and now that I am professionalizing in sex, creating a naturist sexual community and that I am a nudist wherever I go, he wants me to change that part of my life that I...

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Vaginismus. Premature ejaculation.

Nobody informs us about sexuality and we only have porn references and little else, then vaginismus and premature ejaculation appear and we have no knowledge about this. Women don’t enjoy penetration and men cum fast, and that is totally due to great misinformation about sexuality. Premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation, I think that at some point it can happen to almost anyone. When we know our orgasm well, we create the bad habit of arriving quickly. But real “premature ejaculators”, there really are very few. Many men arrive saying that they have premature ejaculation. The thing is, they haven’t even...

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The rich and money. Psychotic breakdowns. Blassia lifestyle. Second part.

The intermediaries are becoming more and more extravagant and also want the life of the rich by becoming rich. In the end, it is a vicious circle. A catch twenty-two situation.   New lifestyles without thinking so much about money. From my point of view and from my experience I want to show that there are more things that do not imitate everything that others do. Let all the creativity and passion be taken to occupy the time and not waste it being slaves of the money system. Let’s stop using that creativity to create more companies and more...

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The rich and money. Psychotic breakdowns. Blassia lifestyle. First part.

I grew up with the idea that being rich was the best life. I thought that being rich and having money was the best. I thought about money too much. Sometimes it created frustration for me. You think of rich people and money with envy and I imagine that like me, many people think like that. We are educated in a culture where money is the main value. This is how I perceived it where I grew up, on the outskirts of Madrid. We saw the money of the privileged and envied it. I envied the lives of the...

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Tantric sex. Is it a myth? And  Sex toys do they work. 

Have a good orgasm without touching. How wonderful! I have never experienced it and I do not know anyone who without touching has reached climax. It’s true when I had the third psychotic episode I described sensations like orgasms without touching. But I remember and could say that they were not as deep as the ones I have now with toys. Nor similar. The vibrating, sucking toys have been the discovery of the century. They will deserve a Nobel Prize for sexuality. Clearly, sexuality is not recognised anywhere and honestly, from my point of view it seems to me...

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The economic crises. Political systems.

From my point of view, an economic crisis is good. It moves the course of money and people’s professions. They take you out of your comfort zone. Different sectors suffer, while others benefit. Change a little the moment of each one, the way the money flows. In addition, governments and organisations make more money for aid and this goes into circulation. This time it has been the turn of several sectors, but the most affected is leisure, tourism and restaurants. Especially tonight businesses and restaurants. But the truth is that I am not sorry, because those who have known...

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Does size matter?

The great pressure on men. Maybe for those of you who believe in a God who watches over you and observes you, depending on how you behave in other lives, this is the size for this life. Hehehe! Let’s leave jokes aside. Size is given so much importance in sexuality, that for some it becomes a problem. They lose their own self-esteem just because of the size of their penis. I observe that the orgasm is the same, larger or smaller. It shouldn’t be a problem. Now men have started using surgical techniques to keep their penis erect. It...

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Let’s talk about paid sex for women. And also anal.

For about two months, I have had an ad on a Spanish site in Madrid as a Sex Coach and the truth is that I have quite a few calls of all kinds related to sex, but the funny thing is that only men call. Not a single call from a woman. Men generally have a much better sex life than women. They find their orgasm sooner. As I have said other times, it may be that by having their penis erect, they have that clue that they quickly discover orgasm and give themselves pleasure. In addition, men are...

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Sexual abuse of minors

As some of you already know, I am creating a Community of Sexuality, with the motto: For sexual education. Many times I have written about the lack of information that there is about sexuality and that there is a lack of people that can teach us about sexuality. Well, here I am to teach it, not only with words but also with practice, which is lacking. Especially in the female world. At the moment I contribute what I can. I am available to anyone who wants to talk about sex. I do a group meeting every month and I...

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What is the formula?

I have managed to be comfortable being alone. From what I have learned I have also dedicated my time, to what is worth it and to who really deserves it. Before, I guess, because I didn’t want to be alone, I accepted all kinds of friends. Now I have become more demanding. I’m so productive being alone, I think very well about who I spend my time with. Time is a very valuable thing, along with freedom and health and for me, even life highs, it is much more important than money. Of course, a minimum of money is...

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Do I prefer young or mature clients?

In general, it is the people, not the age, but sometimes I cannot cope with the young people, not with everyone, of course, many of them are charming. But some because they have a business or a good job and their money grows and they believe more than anyone and also behave as if the sex workers were illiterate and uneducated because many times we do not speak the language. They don’t think that we are normal people and we have a normal private life. And as I am older and they are doing you a favour by being...

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My enrolment in sexology was rejected because I am a prostitute.

I have a bit of a letdown because I was excited and motivated that I was going to start studying sexology at the school of psycho-sexology in Paris but my application has been rejected! Two years ago, I got serious about studying French and English and about a year ago I thought about studying something in French in Paris, since it is now the place where I am based the most. I have rented a studio and I am going to spend a lot of time here so studying something it motivates me to learn and perfect French. Looking...

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Reflections on the Coronavirus

For me, it is a metaphor that the Earth has spoken. The earth has acted upon our destructive behaviour. She has developed a virus that does not kill animals or plants, only humans. My reflection is that this is the result of our actions. Many of us have been saying it, the system needs a radical change! In the end, with the earth own fear response of a virus more contagious than the flu, the earth has managed to leave us locked in our homes without being able to leave. Punished! In the end, it has been that we...

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The best and the worst in Los Angeles

The best thing was my orgasm on the last day, with the squirting waters from the Rooftop jacuzzi (lol), also the sunsets on the beaches of California and my CrossFit classes. The worst was the person I shared my apartment with for a week, who left without paying! As many of you already know, I spent almost a month in LA. I had the trip scheduled well in advance so I knew I had time to leave and arrive more relaxed. I rented an apartment via Booking.com and it honestly was right for me. Well located, good quality and...

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The human race is one that must be exterminated.

We do not want to see it, nor do we want to admit it, but it is obvious that it is the human race that has to be exterminated and disappear. The human race has taken over the earth. You always hear animals in danger of extinction, but why do animals die out? The vast majority is because of the human hand. We have invaded everything we have been able to and that which has been left to us. So who would have to become extinct for the earth to be saved and regenerated? Well, the human race. That...

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Consequences of bad prostitution.

Night sex brings consequences. Sex at night! Customers do not realize how much they promote drug trafficking and girl trafficking. Honestly, it is not very positive. I know that many girls work the night because they want to make money. The truth is, I don’t see how it is healthy. In the long run, it creates distortions in sleep, alcoholism and drug addiction. In my case, it doesn’t work for me. And more so with my psychotic breakdowns. In regard to a breakdown, I would have one again, for sure!  I would not mind, the last time was so...

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Sex professionals have learned how to have good sex.

Sex, whether you are paying for it or not, in my personal opinion, the best part is undoubtedly the physical pleasure that one feels inside the body. For me, sex is giving and receiving physical pleasure. All those variations that have been associated with it, such as role-play, domination, submission, kindness, Sado, dolls, etc., are fantasies but it is not physical pleasure, it is mental. They are techniques that help to get you excited. I could say it is psychological that we feel this in our pleasure centres in our brains and that it is not physical. Unless you...

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Driving, eating, customers

For most of my life, not only now as an Escort, I have travelled to different countries and have lived in them and many things still seem to me very curious. It depends where you learn something, it becomes automatic. And for some it is strange and for others, it is the most natural and normal thing in the world. That is why every day I’m clear that we are the system we create. We have nothing left of our own instinct! It disappears over the years. We are all in the same world but it’s different in each...

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Let’s discover and invent pleasant working conditions.Happiness is important,right?

One way or another we all have to do something. We can call  it working, doing an activity or running a business.I do not know anyone that does absolutely nothing.It would also be boring. And in the end there are always things to do.   We all come from where we do not know. There is nothing that confirms this but we know we all start in the womb of  woman.Where you were born,in what country,in what city or family at any given moment,will also shape the direction of your life.  We have had the luck,and I include myself in that, to...

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Vote or not vote !!!

To vote or not to vote !!!! It’s inevitable not to talk about politics when we had elections on April 29 in Spain. This year elections have played a large role and in Spain is much talk of politics and in the months to follow I imagine much more. As I’m not in the country all the time I do not know as much of the daily politics but I’ve observed and I appreciate that those of the younger generation and my generations are not as preoccupied with politics. People are respectful of each other’s political orientations and generally...

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My first climax at 27 years old

My first climax.  I always say nobody teaches us and talks us about sex openly and even less  so than during the time I was a teenager. The only thing I had heard from time to time was the phrase “make a finger”.  That’s when I introduced something into my vagina. I was never satisfied, of course now I understand why. With my friends from childhood we never talked about sex and it was also hidden. And for sure at home we never talked about sex. Even with cousins ​​or brothers and sisters. From my two relationships I never...

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THE SYSTEM OF COMPANIES IT’S A TEASE THAT ALMOST EVERYONE ACCEPT FOR A SALARY.

Private companies do not have a heart, only they are worried about getting numbers and goals and they have forgotten to take care of people. They have copied a model of companies that they are less worried about the happiness of their teams/the workers. This system of companies so exploitative and objectives doesn’t go with me. I have a great example to know what I am talking about. I worked in a spanish national insurance company where I worked for four years and in other jobs. They use you and when they are no longer interested about you they...

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