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My stay in Madrid. Family matters. Second part

I’ve been at my parents’ house for a month and a half and there are better moments and worse moments. My parents and I can’t stand each other most of the time. My father doesn’t tolerate or respect my way of thinking and I can’t cope with his intolerance and his only perspective of seeing things. He is very political and a bit racist and I am not political and not at all racist. He sometimes makes comments that are provocative. We can’t take him anywhere, let alone with people who don’t speak his language and have different ideologies....

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My stay in Madrid. First part

When I left Madrid 6 years ago, I left with the purpose of becoming trilingual in Spanish, French and English. My friends laughed and didn’t see me capable, not because I wasn’t capable, but because they saw it as something very difficult and even more so at 42 years of age. A friend asked me after three years of being away, how I was doing with my «trilingualism». I imagine that she thought: «I don’t see it, you must get off your high horse » and to relax myself with my purpose, I answered her: «Well, reaching the level...

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My experience with Ayahuasca.

I have been wanting to try it for years, but with the fact that the system had diagnosed me with bipolar and I take medication, nobody accepted me. Also around me my family and friends worried and held me back, trying to scare me. In the end, I made the decision to try it, I wanted to have the experience, it had caught my attention and I wanted to know what it felt like. I’m going to tell you the story from the beginning. I hope I don’t bore you. Well, it turns out that a friend who didn’t...

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How people underestimate you because of your age and have the incorrect perception of you

Whoever still thinks that sex and orgasms are old, from my humble opinion lives in great ignorance. I don’t know why sexual experience and wisdom are still not valued in sex. You keep fucking with your eyes and not with your five senses. If I have to base myself on the ages and physiques of my clients, to have good sex, then with 90%  of them I would not even reach orgasm. But since I don’t care about physique and age, I can enjoy good sex, with an old or young man, with a fat man or a skinny...

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Do you know what cisgender means?

I find it so incredible that the word cisgender was heard for the first time by me not more than two months ago from a Netflix series about the principles of pleasure https://www.netflix.com/watch/81154485?trackId=14170286 Being cisgender is adopting the sexual preference that has been assigned to you at birth for being born with a penis or vagina. It is the way of knowingly and properly mentioning people who accept and assume by system how they have to dress, comb their hair, what colours to choose and above all what gender they have to fall in love with and marry. We...

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Do men fuck more than women? My wife doesn’t make me hard anymore! I am addicted to sex!

Let’s talk again about sexuality and about the calls I receive from my advertisement as a sex coach. I still get 100% calls from men. It must be that women already know everything and they do not need to learn more. They have no doubts that their sexuality is full or it is that they do not like to have orgasms and pleasure. Or, they are happy to live without it or could be that with the Satisfayer (sex toy), they don’t need another person to have pleasure with. Not men, men are insistent and are always looking for new sensations in sex. They are still curious and since it is normal for them to pay for it, they have more sex than women. But women, what kind of sex do they learn if they don’t practice it either in marriage or outside of marriage? Men pay and have sex, but women, I wonder how much sex they have throughout their lives? Because I am a sex worker, otherwise I would be like most women my age, I would have a life almost without sex. Luckily, I became a sex worker, otherwise, I don’t know if I would know how to give the pleasure that I give and have the pleasure that I have. I wouldn’t have learned it. Because what I have learned so far has taken me...

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Continue the trip to Tunisia

First part.   The first few days were a bit of a disappointment, for both Ahmed and me. We found it very dirty with plastic bottles everywhere and all kinds of garbage. After several days, you start to see the charm of the town and you start to feel comfortable. Of course, garbage is still everywhere. I didn’t get used to that. The lovely family, the two sisters, the mother and the grandmother, all women. Unfortunately, as I have already mentioned, the father had only passed away two months before. Runaway stomach cancer. The pity was that for a...

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My first trip to Tunisia and I think it will not be the last.

My partner is from Tunisia and he left his city 10 years ago and went directly to Paris. He hasn’t had the opportunity to return there at this time. We met a year ago and last year we were talking about this summer, which at that time was in the future. We spoke about taking a trip to his country together and a trip to the mine.  I had never been to Tunisia and I was very curious. And going with a local is a different type of trip than going on your own. We planned for Madrid and...

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What is it about my life?

  I can say it is happy and sad. Happy for many things and sad for only one. Sad because my partner does not stop pushing me to leave everything related to sex and nudism. Please, I need help! Can someone tell him how foolish he is that he can even ask me that! I have been in the sex worker profession for 10 years and now that I am professionalizing in sex, creating a naturist sexual community and that I am a nudist wherever I go, he wants me to change that part of my life that I...

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Vaginismus. Premature ejaculation.

Nobody informs us about sexuality and we only have porn references and little else, then vaginismus and premature ejaculation appear and we have no knowledge about this. Women don’t enjoy penetration and men cum fast, and that is totally due to great misinformation about sexuality. Premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation, I think that at some point it can happen to almost anyone. When we know our orgasm well, we create the bad habit of arriving quickly. But real “premature ejaculators”, there really are very few. Many men arrive saying that they have premature ejaculation. The thing is, they haven’t even...

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The rich and money. Psychotic breakdowns. Blassia lifestyle. Second part.

The intermediaries are becoming more and more extravagant and also want the life of the rich by becoming rich. In the end, it is a vicious circle. A catch twenty-two situation.   New lifestyles without thinking so much about money. From my point of view and from my experience I want to show that there are more things that do not imitate everything that others do. Let all the creativity and passion be taken to occupy the time and not waste it being slaves of the money system. Let’s stop using that creativity to create more companies and more...

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The rich and money. Psychotic breakdowns. Blassia lifestyle. First part.

I grew up with the idea that being rich was the best life. I thought that being rich and having money was the best. I thought about money too much. Sometimes it created frustration for me. You think of rich people and money with envy and I imagine that like me, many people think like that. We are educated in a culture where money is the main value. This is how I perceived it where I grew up, on the outskirts of Madrid. We saw the money of the privileged and envied it. I envied the lives of the...

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Tantric sex. Is it a myth? And  Sex toys do they work. 

Have a good orgasm without touching. How wonderful! I have never experienced it and I do not know anyone who without touching has reached climax. It’s true when I had the third psychotic episode I described sensations like orgasms without touching. But I remember and could say that they were not as deep as the ones I have now with toys. Nor similar. The vibrating, sucking toys have been the discovery of the century. They will deserve a Nobel Prize for sexuality. Clearly, sexuality is not recognised anywhere and honestly, from my point of view it seems to me...

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The economic crises. Political systems.

From my point of view, an economic crisis is good. It moves the course of money and people’s professions. They take you out of your comfort zone. Different sectors suffer, while others benefit. Change a little the moment of each one, the way the money flows. In addition, governments and organisations make more money for aid and this goes into circulation. This time it has been the turn of several sectors, but the most affected is leisure, tourism and restaurants. Especially tonight businesses and restaurants. But the truth is that I am not sorry, because those who have known...

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Does size matter?

The great pressure on men. Maybe for those of you who believe in a God who watches over you and observes you, depending on how you behave in other lives, this is the size for this life. Hehehe! Let’s leave jokes aside. Size is given so much importance in sexuality, that for some it becomes a problem. They lose their own self-esteem just because of the size of their penis. I observe that the orgasm is the same, larger or smaller. It shouldn’t be a problem. Now men have started using surgical techniques to keep their penis erect. It...

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