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“It’s tough being a sex worker in Spain”

Posted by Cris Blas | Jan 26, 2024 | Blog English, Personal experience, Sexuality, Society and culture |

Since arriving in Madrid, I have seen how surreal the problem of being a sex worker is. While I was still in Paris, I started hearing from colleagues that the Spanish government wanted to hide prostitution and abolish it. This subject always comes up when there are changes in government. This time, it is because a negative image of the country was given to tourists, by people who do not accept this profession and want it to remain hidden. It already appeared very vulgar: there were many sex workers on the street, advertisements and posters everywhere with nudity and obscene words. Now they hid it again and here is the result today, January 2024. From my point of view and given my presence in sex work, this is what I see. With the word prostitution, we include everything that involves sexual relations, whether consensual or not, as long as there is money involved. However, being a sex worker can take different forms. I speak in feminine terms because we are mainly women in this profession. (It is clear that it is different to be born with testosterone or estrogen). It can be: -The one who works on the street independently. -The one who works on the street for someone. -The one who works in a club which in Spain is called “Puti Club”. -The one who works in a...

Response to those who ask to have unprotected sex, whether anal or vaginal

Posted by Cris Blas | Dec 4, 2023 | Blog English, Sexuality |

I’m not exaggerating but practically every day someone asks me if I do anal and vaginal penetration without a condom. So I’m going to write this, for the next many who ask me, send them this text directly. Let’s see, gentlemen, we already know that through the anus we do not run the risk of getting pregnant, but we do run the risk of contracting other STDs. Sexually transmitted diseases. It is possible to contract HIV, genital herpes, and HPV, which causes cervical cancer, syphilis and other sexually transmitted infections. Transmission occurs orally, vaginally and anal, during unprotected sex, which is why the use of condoms is insisted upon in every sexual relationship. I am taking a risk by doing fellatio without a condom. But with vaginal and anal penetration I don’t run that risk. Vaginal because women quickly suffer from chlamydia and to give pleasure to a person, I do not run that risk, which also often means spending a week or two without work due to itching and stinging. For those who don’t know, we both have chlamydia, men and women, but men don’t have symptoms, so they don’t know if they have it and they are very easy to spread. Anal, not only because of the great risk of contracting an STD but also because of hygiene. You never know if it will be clean inside...

Galeria de Fotos

Posted by Cris Blas | Aug 5, 2023 | Blog English, Sexuality |

It is said that without a university degree, you are not worthy!

Posted by Cris Blas | Jun 2, 2023 | Blog English, Personal experience, Sexuality, Society and culture |

As a friend told me the day I was rejected from the Paris School of Sexology: “You are already a sexologist” Three years ago I submitted my application to study Sexology, but it was rejected. So I decided to look for other options. I leave this link where I wrote about it. My enrolment in sexology was rejected because I am a prostitute. After being rejected and wanting to continue studying, I looked for other options and what was closest was a life coach course along with a sex coach course. Despite its price, it was clear...

Do you know what cisgender means?

Posted by Cris Blas | Apr 13, 2022 | Blog English, Eventos, Sexuality |

I find it so incredible that the word cisgender was heard for the first time by me not more than two months ago from a Netflix series about the principles of pleasure https://www.netflix.com/watch/81154485?trackId=14170286 Being cisgender is adopting the sexual preference that has been assigned to you at birth for being born with a penis or vagina. It is the way of knowingly and properly mentioning people who accept and assume by system how they have to dress, comb their hair, what colours to choose and above all what gender they have to fall in love with and marry. We...

Do men fuck more than women? My wife doesn’t make me hard anymore! I am addicted to sex!

Posted by Cris Blas | Feb 13, 2022 | Blog English, Sexuality, Society and culture |

Let’s talk again about sexuality and about the calls I receive from my advertisement as a sex coach. I still get 100% calls from men. It must be that women already know everything and they do not need to learn more. They have no doubts that their sexuality is full or it is that they do not like to have orgasms and pleasure. Or, they are happy to live without it or could be that with the Satisfayer (sex toy), they don’t need another person to have pleasure with. Not men, men are insistent and are always looking for new sensations in sex. They are still curious and since it is normal for them to pay for it, they have more sex than women. But women, what kind of sex do they learn if they don’t practice it either in marriage or outside of marriage? Men pay and have sex, but women, I wonder how much sex they have throughout their lives? Because I am a sex worker, otherwise I would be like most women my age, I would have a life almost without sex. Luckily, I became a sex worker, otherwise, I don’t know if I would know how to give the pleasure that I give and have the pleasure that I have. I wouldn’t have learned it. Because what I have learned so far has taken me...

Sex professionals have learned how to have good sex.

Posted by Cris Blas | Sep 30, 2019 | Blog English, Sexuality, Society and culture |

Sex, whether you are paying for it or not, in my personal opinion, the best part is undoubtedly the physical pleasure that one feels inside the body. For me, sex is giving and receiving physical pleasure. All those variations that have been associated with it, such as role-play, domination, submission, kindness, Sado, dolls, etc., are fantasies but it is not physical pleasure, it is mental. They are techniques that help to get you excited. I could say it is psychological that we feel this in our pleasure centres in our brains and that it is not physical. Unless you...

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