Are You a Sexophile or a Sexophobe? What Your Relationship With Sex May Reveal About Your Pleasure
Sexophile is the term used by sexologist Iv Psalti to refer to a person who is interested in sex and enjoys their sexuality. Sexophobe, despite what the word may suggest, does not necessarily mean that someone hates or fears sex. Psalti uses the term mainly to refer...
Having a vulva or a penis should not decide who you are or who you desire
From the moment we are born, society turns our genitals into identity, into rules and into a “correct” way of loving. That is where much of the problem begins. The problem begins practically at birth. Someone looks at a baby’s genitals and, depending on whether they...
Sex for Its Own Sake Doesn’t Interest Me. Pleasure Does: How to Learn to Give and Receive It
Sex for Its Own Sake Doesn’t Interest Me. Pleasure Does: How to Learn to Give and Receive It I have given pleasure to a great many people throughout my life and during more than fifteen years working with sexuality. Many have been surprised to discover...