Category: Personal experience

My third trip to Tunisia

I wrote about my first trip to Tunisia in this blog, but not about the second. I didn’t give it much importance since I was only there for a week. But on this third trip, which I came for a month and stayed for almost three months, I feel like writing about it for my own memories. It started with the idea of ​​going by car. I have just bought a car in Switzerland and the truth is that in Tunisia without a car you can’t do much and we prefer, my partner who is Tunisian and I, to...

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“It’s tough being a sex worker in Spain”

Since arriving in Madrid, I have seen how surreal the problem of being a sex worker is. While I was still in Paris, I started hearing from colleagues that the Spanish government wanted to hide prostitution and abolish it. This subject always comes up when there are changes in government. This time, it is because a negative image of the country was given to tourists, by people who do not accept this profession and want it to remain hidden. It already appeared very vulgar: there were many sex workers on the street, advertisements and posters everywhere with nudity and obscene words. Now they hid it again and here is the result today, January 2024. From my point of view and given my presence in sex work, this is what I see. With the word prostitution, we include everything that involves sexual relations, whether consensual or not, as long as there is money involved. However, being a sex worker can take different forms. I speak in feminine terms because we are mainly women in this profession. (It is clear that it is different to be born with testosterone or estrogen). It can be: -The one who works on the street independently. -The one who works on the street for someone. -The one who works in a club which in Spain is called “Puti Club”. -The one who works in a...

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It is said that without a university degree, you are not worthy! 

  As a friend told me the day I was rejected from the Paris School of Sexology: “You are already a sexologist” Three years ago I submitted my application to study Sexology, but it was rejected. So I decided to look for other options. I leave this link where I wrote about it. My enrolment in sexology was rejected because I am a prostitute.   After being rejected and wanting to continue studying, I looked for other options and what was closest was a life coach course along with a sex coach course. Despite its price, it was clear...

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My stay in Madrid. Family matters. Second part

I’ve been at my parents’ house for a month and a half and there are better moments and worse moments. My parents and I can’t stand each other most of the time. My father doesn’t tolerate or respect my way of thinking and I can’t cope with his intolerance and his only perspective of seeing things. He is very political and a bit racist and I am not political and not at all racist. He sometimes makes comments that are provocative. We can’t take him anywhere, let alone with people who don’t speak his language and have different ideologies....

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My stay in Madrid. First part

When I left Madrid 6 years ago, I left with the purpose of becoming trilingual in Spanish, French and English. My friends laughed and didn’t see me capable, not because I wasn’t capable, but because they saw it as something very difficult and even more so at 42 years of age. A friend asked me after three years of being away, how I was doing with my «trilingualism». I imagine that she thought: «I don’t see it, you must get off your high horse » and to relax myself with my purpose, I answered her: «Well, reaching the level...

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My experience with Ayahuasca.

I have been wanting to try it for years, but with the fact that the system had diagnosed me with bipolar and I take medication, nobody accepted me. Also around me my family and friends worried and held me back, trying to scare me. In the end, I made the decision to try it, I wanted to have the experience, it had caught my attention and I wanted to know what it felt like. I’m going to tell you the story from the beginning. I hope I don’t bore you. Well, it turns out that a friend who didn’t...

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How people underestimate you because of your age and have the incorrect perception of you

Whoever still thinks that sex and orgasms are old, from my humble opinion lives in great ignorance. I don’t know why sexual experience and wisdom are still not valued in sex. You keep fucking with your eyes and not with your five senses. If I have to base myself on the ages and physiques of my clients, to have good sex, then with 90%  of them I would not even reach orgasm. But since I don’t care about physique and age, I can enjoy good sex, with an old or young man, with a fat man or a skinny...

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