“It’s tough being a sex worker in Spain”

Since arriving in Madrid, I have seen how surreal the problem of being a sex worker is. While I was still in Paris, I started hearing from colleagues that the Spanish government wanted to hide prostitution and abolish it. This subject always comes up when there are changes in government. This time, it is because a negative image of the country was given to tourists, by people who do not accept this profession and want it to remain hidden. It already appeared very vulgar: there were many sex workers on the street, advertisements and posters everywhere with nudity and obscene words. Now they hid it again and here is the result today, January 2024. From my point of view and given my presence in sex work, this is what I see. With the word prostitution, we include everything that involves sexual relations, whether consensual or not, as long as there is money involved. However, being a sex worker can take different forms. I speak in feminine terms because we are mainly women in this profession. (It is clear that it is different to be born with testosterone or estrogen). It can be: -The one who works on the street independently. -The one who works on the street for someone. -The one who works in a club which in Spain is called “Puti Club”. -The one who works in a...

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Response to those who ask to have unprotected sex, whether anal or vaginal

I’m not exaggerating but practically every day someone asks me if I do anal and vaginal penetration without a condom. So I’m going to write this, for the next many who ask me, send them this text directly. Let’s see, gentlemen, we already know that through the anus we do not run the risk of getting pregnant, but we do run the risk of contracting other STDs. Sexually transmitted diseases. It is possible to contract HIV, genital herpes, and HPV, which causes cervical cancer, syphilis and other sexually transmitted infections. Transmission occurs orally, vaginally and anal, during unprotected sex, which is why the use of condoms is insisted upon in every sexual relationship. I am taking a risk by doing fellatio without a condom. But with vaginal and anal penetration I don’t run that risk. Vaginal because women quickly suffer from chlamydia and to give pleasure to a person, I do not run that risk, which also often means spending a week or two without work due to itching and stinging. For those who don’t know, we both have chlamydia, men and women, but men don’t have symptoms, so they don’t know if they have it and they are very easy to spread. Anal, not only because of the great risk of contracting an STD but also because of hygiene. You never know if it will be clean inside...

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The transition

I am in the transition from Escort to S.e.x Coach. An escort is a person who has sex with the client and only has to think about enjoying themself practically keeping quiet and letting herself be done by the client. A sex coach is more of a sex teacher, a sex psychologist, a sex therapist. I am in the transition. I am still an Escort and at the same time I am beginning to be a practical Sex Coach and therapist. Clients are starting to come to me because they want to learn about sex and others to talk...

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Next zoom Thursday September 14: L’anorgasmia

Hello. Monthly meetings are back. As I said, when I said goodbye for vacation, at the next meeting we will talk about anorgasmia. Do you think it may be your case? or Do you want to give your opinion? We will talk about that and as always more topics will come up. Of course,  issues, and topics related to sexuality. If you are new to the community, you are welcome to participate and talk about sex. The goal of this community is to take sexuality out of the closet speak openly without taboos and above all speak without feeling...

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Naturist nudist event in Zurich

Hello. It seems that I am the only one at the moment that organizes meetings. The meaning of the group has changed, and sexuality has been removed because the idea of the group is more of naturist meetings than sexual meetings, and mentioning sexual education sounds like sex to men and scares women away.I pass you the link where you can see the new changes.https://www.meetup.com/communaute-naturiste-nudiste/If you do not agree with the changes because you no longer identify yourself with this community, you can leave whenever you want that we understand and respect. On Tuesday, August 15, I’m going to...

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