It’s not the same. And there’s nothing wrong with saying it.
For many years, I was a sex worker.
Today, I am a sex coach.
I say it plainly, without gloss or shame.
A sex worker provides a sexual service.
There may be connection, affection, pleasure, chemistry…
But the main goal is the sexual experience itself.
A sex coach accompanies processes.
They work with the body, the mind, emotions, blocks, self-esteem, and sexual education.
The goal is not to “make you climax,” but to teach you how to feel, communicate, and enjoy better—on your own and with others.
So… why are they confused?
Because sex is still taboo.
Because many people believe pleasure is “automatic.”
And because it’s not understood that sex can also be trained, learned, and transformed.
My case
I do not reject my past.
On the contrary: my experience as a sex worker is one of my greatest trainings.
Thanks to those years:
- I know the real body, not the one from movies.
- I have seen male and female insecurities at every age.
- I know what blocks, what opens, what frightens, and what liberates.
The difference is clear:
Before, I offered encounters. Now, I offer tools, awareness, and learning.
Can there be pleasure in a sex coaching session?
Yes.
But pleasure is not the goal—it is the means.
The objective is for you to:
- Learn to give and receive.
- Let go of fears and shame.
- Stop “performing” in bed.
- Reconnect with your real desire.
In summary
- Sex worker → sexual service
- Sex coach → accompaniment, education, and transformation
Both professions deserve respect.
But they are not the same.
And today, I choose to be here:
Teaching how to live sexuality with more freedom, less guilt, and much more conscious enjoyment.
There are sex coaches who do not include practice.
I believe that, to truly learn any field, practice is essential.
