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Hey there! You’re probably wondering what it means to be a Sex Coach and what you can expect from our sessions. Essentially, I’m your personal sexual trainer and teacher. Just like a sports coach or a professor, my goal is to guide you to discover and perfect your orgasm for a more physical pleasure.
My Philosophy: A Real Orgasm.
In a world where sexuality is often lived in a classic way, full of taboos and pre-established scripts (many of which are tinged with sexism, like those portrayed in porn or romantic movies made by men), my mission is to challenge those norms. I aim to dismantle limiting beliefs and teach you to practice real, conscious, and RECIPROCAL sex.
My approach is based on authentic communication: saying what you like and what you don’t, and vice versa. It’s about thinking about the pleasure of both people and truly connecting. Even though many believe they already do this, the reality is that there’s a vast universe of sensations and techniques to explore. Did you know that not all women like cunnilingus and that over 90% of women have faked orgasms on many occasions? My experience allows me to guide you beyond the conventional—if you’re ready, willing, and prepared to learn. And of course, don’t be one of those people who think that because you’re paying, all the pleasure should be for you.
For me, in sexuality, there’s no such thing as gender or orientation. Whether you’re a man or a woman, the essence of pleasure and connection is the same; only the anatomies change. My coaching adapts to each person, their sexual journey, their sexual situation, and their specific circumstances.
My Approach Is Unique Thanks to My Experience.
I’m a Sex Coach who has been forged by practice, with 14 years of direct and profound professional experience in human sexuality. I’ve supplemented this vast experience with courses and training, but it’s the real contact, my open mind, and my work as a sex worker that have allowed me to develop a unique understanding of pleasure.
Unlike a traditional service or a massage with a “happy ending,” I don’t offer a quick escape. I am a personal sex trainer. Just like in Yoga or Crossfit, where they correct your posture to get the maximum benefit, I will guide and correct you if I notice habits that limit your pleasure or mine. My goal is for you to achieve a fully satisfying sex life for yourself and for those you share intimacy with—in this case, me. If you don’t like being corrected, this might not be the right space for you. Here, we come to learn and improve together.
What to expect from a session with me? My commitments and yours:
For each session to be as productive and transformative as possible, I ask for your commitment to these guidelines:
Direct and Respectful Communication: Please be as precise as possible in your messages. The information I send in advance and my ads already offer a good idea of my approach. I ask you to be direct and concrete when you contact me, just like when you book a table at a restaurant.
Punctuality: Show respect for both of our time by arriving as punctually as possible for our appointment.
Preparation for Intense Pleasure: I ask that you avoid masturbation or sex on that day at least, and ideally for a minimum of three days (or even one to three weeks, depending on your personal situation and the type of orgasm addiction some clients experience). This allows your senses to sharpen and for the pleasure to be truly deep and meaningful.
Clarity of Mind and Body: For “real sex,” it’s crucial that you come with a clear mind. Avoid taking Viagra, alcohol, and/or drugs. While everyone knows their own body, these substances often interfere with erection, sensitivity, and the ability for genuine connection. It’s true that Marijuana can help in many cases to achieve that magical pleasure. Other drugs distort orgasmic pleasure, especially for women.
Openness to Learn and Grow: If you come expecting to have the “same old sex” your way, I assure you my method will be irritating. I won’t hesitate to point out what I believe you can improve, from the first caresses or kisses. My intention is for you to acquire new skills for your own future experiences. Most people don’t know how to caress or kiss in ways that maximise pleasure; I’m here to teach you.
Mastering Specific Techniques (e.g., Anal Sex): If your interest includes anal exploration, you must learn how to prepare the anus correctly. Don’t go straight for rough penetration without lubricant. Anal sex requires patience, preparation, and a slow, careful introduction, keeping in mind the delicacy of the area. As with the vagina, the secret is to start slowly and forget the fast, aggressive scenes from porn. Ask, adapt, and always seek mutual pleasure.
Giving and receiving pleasure is an art that is learned. And sexual pleasure, when given and experienced fully, is one of the most wonderful things that Nature has provided us. My sessions are designed so that you learn to have and give genuine and deep orgasms. Many times, that’s where we need science, meaning sexual toys; for both women and men.
Thanks to my vast experience and a completely open mind, I now enjoy teaching anyone who is willing to do a little bit of their part.
If you’re tired of superficial sex and want to change the way you experience it, if you want to stop being a passive “starfish” and truly immerse yourself in mutual pleasure, then this is your place. If you’re just looking for a “happy ending” without a commitment to learning, a massage therapist might be a more suitable option. Here, we’re going to enjoy, learn from each other, and make it real.
My vision is to transform sexuality, especially in the heterosexual world, where it has often been so hidden and distorted. And a sexuality has been interpreted on screens where real inner pleasure is not detected. It has all been acting. It has nothing to do with real physical pleasure.
Luckily, today’s children are born into a much more open environment, and it’s time for adult sexuality to also leap light-years towards true pleasure and connection.
I hope one day I can also teach sex workers themselves, because both parties, in many cases, are disoriented on how to have real pleasure.
I’m here to help you discover the pleasure of giving and receiving!
Cris Blas
Sex Coach Hands-On
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